Sometimes when you cry so much, we try to teach you to calm down by yourself. Well, maybe I'm weak so I can't leave you so long...but anyway we try it.
Last weekend it also happened. You cried so hard for no reason (maybe, we don't know). We gave you milk, tried to play with you, held you and walked around. Nothing worked. So we decided to put you down in your crib, upstairs alone.
But I worried too much. I thought maybe 30 minutes is the max. Because I read like this, and always the person who puts you down was papa and picks you up was me. I didn't want you to remember us like this. So I told him to pick you up.
He didn't agree. Because your papa was going to leave you until you stopped crying. Even if he picked you up, he thought you wouldn't stop crying. But remember, he was doing this because he loves you so much.
But I couldn't wait and asked again.
Your papa picked you up. You didn't stop crying. It was bad timing also. It's the time for your milk. You were hungry too.
I can't be so strong and leave you crying because there is some reason maybe.
If it's works or not, I don't know 100% for sure. Because you are only 2 months old. Even older age, sometimes I think (and some people also says) it's depends on the baby's character.
I held you in my belly for 10 months. Actually, now, it's really only a short time too that I can hold you and you want me to hold in your life. Soon you will be a big boy and walk to walk alone.
Some people say "Cry It Out" to make the future a little easier. Other people say that crying too much makes the baby slow to grow up because they use their power for crying more than growth. Or maube they will lose their personality if they cry too much, like they don't show their feeling.
I don't know what is true and what is right for you.
We will figure out little by little. I hope...
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